When people hear the term “Mental Health” it comes with a negative stigma, due to a lack of understanding. However, when people take the time to understand that everyone has levels of mental health struggles it becomes less negative and more respected. The month of May is focused on Mental Health Awareness, which is designed to help educate people in the world that it is okay to acknowledge pain, and/or struggles within, as it gives people a chance to stand together to show that no one is alone..
When we think about valuing our mental health, we may often think about taking deep breathes, and even that can have a negative stigma, when it turns out that breathing is actually important in this process. Afterall, we need to breathe to survive, so it goes hand and hand with our health (physical and mental). That is why the phrase “take a mental health day” has become more known. But the question is, what exactly is a mental health day? A mental health day does not mean just playing hookey from school or work, but allowing yourself time to take a break from the world and allow yourself to actually breathe and hit the reset button.
We require sleep, peace, time to process our emotions and sometimes we just need to scream! Oftentimes, we are so embedded into our daily routines, that we forget to give ourselves time to debrief, or even just process what happens. When prioritizing ourselves and our mental health, that does not only mean seeing a therapist (even though it is helpful), sometimes that means taking a break from society, or even social media. While that may seem difficult, it is oftentimes the hardest things that are the most beneficial to our needs.
Mental Health Awareness month is not only about taking a mental health day, but also understanding what mental health truly entails. Mental Health is also not only about being diagnosed with something, but truly understanding that everyone has their own struggles internally just as well as they do externally. And even those who are considered “normal” may also struggle with mental health concerns. The truth is, being normal is nothing without everyone’s unique individuality. We are born to stand out!
When people think of mental health, they may associate it with weakness, being dangerous or even attention seeking, when in reality mental health is just a part of humanity, just as well as physical health. Mental Health Awareness Month is not only about bringing people together, or reminding people to take a mental health break, but to help people understand that there is nothing wrong with expressing concern or prioritizing your mental health,
Mental Health should not be valued just for a day or just a month, but every day!
By: Angelica Castaldo, LMHC



